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When you first get married, it's fairly easy to make time for one another and keep your priorities in order.  But as life goes on and you add a child or two to your family, your schedule can become hectic in a hurry.  There's daycare and then school, work, cooking, cleaning, mowing the lawn... it never ends.  Managing kids, work and life suddenly seems like a juggling act at the circus! 

So what can you do to return the balance to your life?  These ideas can help you put an end to the chaos of family life and start really enjoying your family.

Set Family Goals

Family goals are important and yet so many of us fail to set even one goal for our family.  By setting goals, you are able to step back and consider each family member's needs from the oldest to the youngest.  Decide which values you'd like to instill and the type of family activities that will encourage these values.  Write down each individual's schedule and find out what times are available during each week to spend together as an entire family.

Be sure to allow each family member time for self and friends.  Younger children should be allowed some quiet time for reading, drawing, etc.  Also determine who will help with homework and when.  Each spouse should have a part in this if your work schedules permit.  And don't forget about the dinner table.  Set a goal to have at least a few sit-down family meals around the table every week.  It's a great time to come together and chat!

A Family Calendar

Once you've set some family goals, create a large family calendar and set certain dates and times for activities.  Writing everything down will give you a guide for family time and help keep your schedule organized.  Of course, the schedule isn't set in stone.  Things may come up to change it occasionally, but it will give you something to go by each week.  Write down school and sports activities, work schedules, planned family outings, dinner time for the family, weekend getaways, etc.

Finding Time

Sometimes it may seem as though there's no time to spend with family.  Everyone is doing their own thing.  Finding time should be your top priority.  If there are too many obligations with school or other organizations, perhaps you should eliminate one or two of these.  Limit television time and spend those hours playing a board game or doing outdoor activities with your children.  Make a romantic dinner date with your spouse and write it on the calendar.  Consider changing jobs if you current job takes you away from your family too much.  Take time to read to your children each night....this is never time wasted.

Family life doesn't have to be like a merry-go-round.  It can be pleasant and fun once you set goals and prioritize your schedule.  Making time for family is one thing you'll never regret!